When I add, want and arrange, I move myself and others. It is a large part of how anything gets going.

I tend to run them together, and when that happens, what I have added starts to look like reality, what I want tightens it, and I arrange things around it. When I am really in it, I become occupied with making that reality real for others too.

I am rarely the only one doing this. What looks like reality to me may not look like reality to others, and they may be occupied with making theirs real for me. We can spend a great deal of effort there, without either of us seeing what the other is working from.

They do not have to run that way. I have added something and said it was mine. I have wanted something and said it plainly. I have arrived with a plan and left it open. Not reliably, and it took seeing what I was doing while I was doing it.

That is what led me to hold this purpose:

That what we add, what we want and what we arrange are visible and revisable, in real time, by ourselves and the people living with them.

I follow this purpose and I violate it. That is not an argument against it. I think it is what a purpose looks like.

What this makes more likely

I do not know what you are wanting to accomplish.

What I have seen is that when what we add, want and arrange stays visible, whatever it is becomes easier to reach. And easier to change if it turns out not to be what you wanted.

And I notice myself as freer. Less run by something, and less anxious.

What this asks

I cannot see and revise what you add, want and arrange for you. Nor can a book or a programme. It is yours. What I can bring is what makes it more likely.